It is perfectly natural to feel upset and emotional when a pet dies. They have likely been part of the family for several years, and it can be devastating to lose such a Cherished Companion. Be prepared too for the fact that different members of the family will react very individually to the loss of a family pet. Support each other as you can and be sympathetic as you all slowly come to terms with the loss of a much-loved pet.
Many people feel guilt after losing their pet and feel they should have done more or acted differently even though it’s likely that owners will have given their pets the best possible care and will have done all they can - there is no reason to feel guilty.
If children are involved, it is important to consider that this may be their first experience of death. To give them the best possible support, be honest with them and tell them the truth about what has happened. Remember the good times with your family pet, get children to draw a picture of their favourite memory of their animal. Write a message to it or put together a scrapbook.
If you are having difficulty grieving for your pet there are organisations such as the Blue Cross Animal Charity who offer a specific service.